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First Do No Further Harm.

These companion resources were created to help you move from intention to action — one conversation, one interaction, and one patient at a time.

You do not need perfection to provide affirming care. You need presence, humility, curiosity, and practice.

Start small. Return often. Keep learning.

– Dr. Lulu

Downloadable companion resources

What to Say: Affirming Language Guide

A quick affirming language guide for real clinical
conversations.
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Affirming Care Self-Assessment

A reflective tool to help evaluate your practice, systems, and patient experience.
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Implicit Bias Reflection Tool

A guided reflection exercise to explore assumptions, discomfort, and growth areas in patient care.
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Expanded MMM Guide

An extended companion resource addressing common myths, mistakes, and misconceptions in LGBTQ+ healthcare.
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Trusted organizations & clinical guidance

American Academy of Pediatrics
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American Medical Association
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World Professional Association for Transgender Health
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The Trevor Project
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Fenway Institute
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American Academy of Pediatrics
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CONTINUE THE WORK

If this book resonated with you, there are additional opportunities for deeper learning, team training, coaching, and implementation support.

AFFIRM / TAP Program

A practical affirming-care education and implementation program for healthcare
professionals, teams, and organizations.

Masterclasses & Training

Interactive sessions focused on communication, patient trust, affirming care practices, and
reducing harm in healthcare environments.

Speaking & Workshops

Available for conferences, hospitals, medical schools, leadership retreats, and healthcare
organizations.